Regardless of what you may have thought of either American presidential candidate in the very divisive 2016 election, one thing can surely be said of both of them: neither shied away from confrontation! I supposed when you get to that level of office, confrontation management (of some form…) is a prerequisite.
Yet another reason you’ll never be voting for yours truly. Ever.
Confrontation is not high on my list of intrinsic qualities. There’s a definite art to it. Granted, some may seem to use only the sledge hammer approach when a gentle tap is all that’s required. Then there’s me. I’m like, “can’t we all just be nice and get along?” But the reality is, no, we can’t. And in this world unfortunately, nor should we. Much to the chagrin of the 1970’s Coca-Cola commercial, we cannot all hold hands and teach the world to sing in Continue reading ““I’d like to buy the world a Coke” just won’t cut it”
Race fans, let’s play name association. I say Memorial Day weekend, and you say—
Okay, if you’re not well versed in racing (which, in truth, I’m not either, it’s just that I grew up in Indianapolis), I’ll give you this clue…
Now, the individuals who purposefully strap themselves into these death traps to hurdle themselves around the Indy 500’s “Greatest Spectacle in Racing” two and a half mile oval at 220mph are, well,…there are several adjectives that come to mind. At least they wear helmets, (which is more than I can get my middle schoolers to do when they ride their bikes.) This year, there was an impressively colossal two-car wreck around lap 55, with the second car doing an airborne 360 (open cockpit, mind you) into the inside railing and safety net. By design, the car shatters to absorb the impact.
Bob loves intelligent sci-fi, you know, the kind where you dare not walk out of the room or you might miss an important piece of the mental puzzle. (But then, he also likes big stupid scary monsters, like Godzilla, so I’ll just him “eclectic”.) He wanted to watch the movie Inception…again. Now, I’ve been vying for the old Jimmy Stewart black and white You Can’t Take It With You, so you can see our differences in taste. But he’s working on some of his own writing and he was doing some, shall we say, research. Because that’s what college professors do.
I’m not a true musician, but I dabble around in a few things. I sort of remember a some notes and symbols from the treble cleft, thanks to my parents’ marvelous attempts to musically educate their young daughter. So when it came time for our oldest child to enter 5th grade, I informed her that it wasn’t a matter of whether or not she would be in the band, but simply which instrument would she like to play.
I think it’s not an uncommon scenario, a young mother dressing up her precious little ones in the new clothes from Grandma for a family photo only to have the 3-year old get ahold of mommy’s lipstick and use it to “paint” his little 1-year old sister. On the way. The baby’s face is sufficiently cleaned off, and miraculously (mercifully) none of the red “paint” got on the dress…only to have the other “end” of the situation explode, uncontainably.
One of my personal favorite recollections is Bob coming into the room where I was napping before going to work nightshift at the hospital one evening. He enters with this question, “Honey, do you love your middle daughter??”
I love history. It’s not something I took the time to study in school—my nursing program left little time for things other than, well, bedpans and needles and all things dealing with the human condition…
And yet the study of history deals with the human condition in very real ways as well. Now, a nurse or doctor will observe certain symptoms in a patient, or review the results of blood work, and thus interpret what is truly happening to plot a course of action. Interestingly, historians can be similar “diagnosticians” when it comes to, not only digging up the facts of the past, but understanding their context, their significance, and their impact on the present and future.
In other words, stuff happens, good and bad. Historians dig out the stuff, and pull out the why, how, and what next. Without that, we tend to misinterpret the present, making more bad stuff happen for the future.
A husband in graduate school with three small children in tow—that was life for six years at Indiana University. We lived in married student housing—what Bob dubbed “the finest in institutional living”—he went to school and worked as a teaching assistant while I muddled through part time as a nurse, sometimes nightshift so that babysitting was minimal, which meant sometimes sleep was also. Graduate student families are poor, by definition, but again, that depends on whose definition. Our bedroom was so small, Bob said that if you walked in and fainted, you’d have at least 60% chance of landing on the bed.
Yeah, I know, I know, Christmas is over, but the message is still relevant this far into 2016! The author can be found here: UFUOMAEE I recommend you wander over to her place and see what else she has in store for you this still very new year.
(Oh, and if you’re new to this part of the blog, here’s the “disclaimer”.)
Blogging 101 and 201–good stuff. No, great stuff. Naturally, you get out of it what you put into it. The important (and encouraging) thing to remember is that there is JUST SO MUCH there, especially for someone like myself who still remembers the Dewey Decimal system. When I started this blogging adventure, I wasn’t merely on the ground floor. More like the basement. But I’ve progressed to some extent, am now helping my husband through Blogging 101, and, lo and behold! I am learning new things the second time around! (As in, “wait-a-minute-how-did-I-miss-that?!?)
My point: any new skill set is, well…new. That is, frustrations and setbacks are to be expected, anticipated, even welcomed as the learning process continues. If I learn nothing else for a particular attempt but patience, that in itself is success.