Have you ever gotten a gift you didn’t need, or better yet, didn’t really want? You smile nicely, (‘cuz that’s what your mom taught you to do), and find something, anything, nice to say about it, (“oh, my, these earrings will match perfectly with the stain I can’t get out of my favorite shirt when my granddaughter…”).
I admit, I have a stash—a small one, so be kind to me—of items to use as “re-gifts”, you know, as things to give away at a party or what not. ‘Fess up, ladies, you have it too. At least, if you’re on a limited budget and/or are a frugal recycler who has cast off the collar and leash of guilt a long time ago when it comes to gifts, (“but that was from dear Aunt Betsy!”) Well, dear Aunt Betsy may have a larger piece of property to hoard such things. Me? I’m still storing stuff for my 30-somethings who are now strewn around the globe.
As wonderful as it is when people give of themselves sacrificially to another, what really makes it meaningful is when they take to time to find out what the person on the receiving end really wants or needs. That’s when the giving actually becomes about the one who is on the receiving end, not about the one who is doing the giving.Continue reading “Heart to heart”